How dare Angela Bassett! She could have clapped, smiled or something. Sure, she didn’t win. We are not going to win every time. But this is her profession she should have clapped or stood up. She was so unprofessional. That’s why no one can be happy for black folks cuz we don’t be happy for other people. 
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​Life be lifing out here. It happens to all of us. Unfortunately, sometimes, when life hits it is like a punch directly in the chest. Then there are the times it hits your mind, your self-esteem, self-confidence, or your dreams. 

NOTE: This is part 2 of our discussion. Link to part 1 is below. 
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If you are still along for this ride, lets continue our conversation. 

5. MIGHT WANT TO PUT THE HENNY & BACKWOODS DOWN
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Evaluate your current habits. How much have you been drinking or smoking lately? I’m not judging here. I will say that excessive drinking and smoking are coping mechanisms. 

NOTE: This is part 1 of our discussion. Link to part 2 is below. 
LET’S GO!!!!!
 
Whether you are ending things with a long-term partner, situationship, or sneaky link, the time immediately after you let that shit go can be both exciting and painful. Don’t get me wrong, the relief that comes with removing someone toxic from your life is an amazing feeling. 

​Before my recovery from alcoholism began, laughter was one of the most painful sounds I knew.